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Confidence

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Trying to be impressive is exhausting, fragile, and almost always less attractive than the easier alternative.

A no is not a judgement of your worth. It's one person's read on one kind of fit, made with almost no information.

You've written it, deleted it, rewritten it, read it aloud, and it's now worse than the first version.

Small talk isn't the point of a conversation. It's the toll you pay to get to one.

Most people are not cruel in dating. They're just conflict-averse, which produces almost identical damage.

The most attractive quality is not confidence exactly. It's having somewhere else to be.

The longer the gap, the bigger the first step feels — and the smaller it actually needs to be.

You are comparing your ordinary Tuesday to a hundred people's best six photographs.

Nobody has ever fallen for someone because of their jawline. They fell for how it felt to be around them.

The rules moved while you were away, but less than the internet will tell you.

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